We would have never thought we’d see the day, but here we are - the more inclusive and sex-positive we’re becoming, the less taboo the topic of pleasure is. And self-pleasure. And finally, out of their dungeons, are the sex machines. More and more couples are curious to bring this unique machine into their bedroom. But wait - what even is a sex machine?
It’s a mechanical device that delivers repetitive motion,
usually thrusting or vibration, without needing your hands to do the work.
Sounds intense? It can be. But that’s exactly the point. These machines don’t
tire, don’t slow down, and don’t miss a beat.
Sex machines offer solo players and couples a unique and saucy chance to explore something new together - a new angle, a new pace, a new fantasy. It's all about having fun and finding new ways to enjoy each other.
For example, one partner might take control of
the settings, deciding how fast, deep, and long, while the other enjoys. Or
maybe you try switching roles. Some couples even use sex machines as part of a
dominant/submissive setup.
In a word? Yes. But let’s unpack that. Most sex toys are great for solo games or quick stimulation. Vibrators, dildos, sleeves - they get the job done. But they’re still dependent on your hands and coordination.
Sex machines offer consistency. Precision. You
set the speed and depth, and it just goes. Some sex machines have multiple
attachments, adjustable angles, or remote controls so your partner can spice
things up without even touching you.
You just need some prep, patience, and a
little curiosity. Let’s break it down:
There are different types of sex machines. Speak about your desires and fantasies, and make the choice together.
A few beginner-friendly features to look for:
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Adjustable thrust speed and depth
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Easy-to-clean attachments
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A solid base or suction system so
it doesn’t slide mid-session
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Interchangeable dildos or
attachments for flexibility
Before you even turn it on, make sure you’re in a space that feels… safe. Not just emotionally, but literally.
Here’s a checklist:
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Lay down a towel or a soft blanket
under the machine (things might get slippery)
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Make sure it's on a stable surface
(the floor is usually better than the bed)
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Have your lube and remote control
within reach
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Turn your phone off - this is not
the time for distractions
Lighting matters too. You don’t need red neon
mood lights (unless you're into that), but dimming the room helps take the
pressure off.
It’s easy to get excited and want to dive right in. Start by just watching the machine move. Get familiar with the rhythm and sound. Adjust the settings and see how they feel on your hand.
If you’re the one using it, guide the
attachment with your hand at first. Let your body adjust. This isn’t a race. If
you’re the partner observing or controlling it, check in often. Ask what feels
good. Notice body language.
Because they’re tired of surface-level stuff, they’re done with “good enough.” Couples want real connection, new sensations, and experiences that make them feel alive, not just satisfied. Sex machines deliver that. They challenge you to trust your partner, laugh at the awkward bits, and discover pleasure in unexpected ways.
And maybe that’s the real secret behind their
rise in popularity: it’s not just about sex - it’s about showing up for each
other in the most playful, raw, and curious way possible.
No pressure. Only possibilities upon sexy
possibilities ahead.